June 13, 2017 Twinf Flame Update

BFF..................If you did not know, I have a youtube channel, "Life of L Connection".
I figured it would be nice to share my latest vlog with you so that we can stay connected xoxoxox!

Hope you enjoy my update!
Love Ya~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Hold This In.............................

I sat with my feelings for more than I want to admit………..contemplating, analyzing and investigating until I became sick.  In the past, I cried, prayed, danced, sang, meditated, revisited and even sought counsel to obtain a better innerstanding of what I was feeling, why I was feeling and how my feelings could be used to grow.  Found out where they came from and how to work with them to facilitate a deeper healing within me. Found ways to work through my challenges, made great strides, learned about myself, acquired tools of empowerment and continued to face challenge after challenge that showed my strength and how much I have grown.

I sat with my feelings for more time than I want to admit.  My feelings and emotions always tell me the truth……..if I am in alignment with my heart and soul, if I am walking my path, if I need to change my direction.  I learned from my feelings, my challenges and my journey to be me, without exception, without regret…….to use both my heart and mind to play this game of life with love, gratitude, wonder, excitement and innocence.

I sat with my intuition for longer than you could imagine, lol……….open to the subtle energies, signs and synchronicities telling me that what I was feeling, sensing and seeing was true.  Finally, I got to the point where I no longer need confirmation from outside sources to validate that which my intuition told me.

I sat with my intuition for longer than I have known…patiently waiting for things to be revealed in their own Divine Time (no, I am not referring to TFs)…..as I continue to move forward and leave the past behind.  Things I have said were swept under the rug, I knew all along, I knew for so long, that one day someone close to you would sing the same song.  When coming from me, it was taken lightly, and over time you must have forgotten, in spite of my plea. 

I sat with my thoughts for longer than usual……….imagining and dreaming could I be delusional?  I wondered when and if you would ever see….the things, the signs my intuition told me (sidebar: I always shared with you what my intuition was telling me through my feelings, dreams, visions, how I connect the dots, etc.)  Why when I shared the things I knew……you looked at me like they could not be true?  The urgent, insistent messages I shared, were said with great force, you must have been scared.  Which makes so much sense……. it was so clear, the reason you distanced yourself from me last year.

I sat with my knowing for longer than some……….my guides told me long before the time would come.  Through conversations, songs and dreams I would see……….that you would slowly forget about me.  My special day came and my knowing was clear………no call, no text, no “Happy Earth Day, I wish you a great year! 

I sat in contemplation with All and myself…………a loud noise broke the silence when something fell off my shelf.  My heart shattered into many pieces, “Not this again” was my thought.  Your casual disregard left me feeling naught.  The cycle continues and I am aware…….of the roles we both play and this time I have no fear.

I sat with my knowing whispering in my ear…………gentle words of encouragement, so loving and clear.  As I remained open, receptive and true, it suddenly became clear what I needed to do.  As I picked up the pieces and cared for each one, I heard the sweet message, “A new phase has begun”.  Painful and arduous is my task at hand…….Devastated and distraught but I innerstand.

I sit and see……the things that my feelings, intuition, thoughts, knowing and contemplation have been telling me.  While I did the work, you were remiss and at play, playing the game of your choice, I tuned in every day.  Recording my findings, the messages are clear, you don't taking time out to energetically send or hear.  Focused and driven is what you should be, my mirror, my soul, looking back at me. 

I sit with my broken pieces and hear what they say…… “You can do this L, We know it hurts but don’t delay”.  “The time is right to say how you feel, It’s ok, it’s alright, he won’t think it’s a big deal”.  Lo and behold, my broken pieces were true, when I told you how I felt, it flew right by you.  Did you read what I wrote?  Did the message go through?  Did you just ignore what I wrote to you?

I sit in confusion………thought we agreed to work……your lack of response cuts me like a dirk.  “Don’t worry, stay strong”, my broken pieces say…..”He will get the message in a couple of days”.  “Put me back together, you have things to do…….don’t let his distractions upset you”.

I sit with my seeing and I want to cry……..My emotions run deep and I can’t tell a lie.  Choices, decisions, daredevil style……….secrets, lies, stored in our Akashic file.  I wish things were blurry, making it hard for me to see……that other things are a priority and come way before me. 

I sit with my journal of messages received and I’m not surprised what they reveal to me.  Dreams, visions and feelings so deep, this energy is so strong and real, it often woke me from sleep.  The story unfolds as my dream comes true……in the messages your sister got while on mushrooms!

I sit with I Am and accept what is “real”…….in this illusion, this game, I am just telling you how I feel.  Shaking my head as I read your texts, I’m sure you remember, nope, no I digress.  A gentle reminder of what I once said, could not wrap the thought around in your head.  Three years ago, I shared with you a particular read, that said we both are indeed StarSeeds.  Did you believe, what I said to be true?, or did you perceive it when your sister told you?

I sit with myself forever and a day……..trying to figure out, how to express on words what I need to say.  Take a minute to be still, open up and it will be clear, maybe now is the time you are ready to hear.  The messages you received, I already knew, I told you a while ago, but they flew by you. 

I sit with my knowing that the time will soon come….when you stop running, you surrender, you succumb.  You are ever so close, but unable to see………clouded by denial and avoidance of things involving me.  Ever so often you see through the clouds, you get it, you lose it, where are you right now?

I sit and am patient, but want you to know.  I am still doing the work, tuning in, being receptive, working daily with Tarot.  Feel what I am writing, see what I say……I feel neglected as you go astray. 

I sit with the knowing, that comes from deep within.  You will soon truly innerstand, open up and let me in.  Right now I feel so invisible, ignored and pushed away.  I had to tell you how I feel, I could not hold this in another day.

Emotional Integration.......................L, you said what?

Hey Fam..........

A few months ago I read a book that was very helpful to me and I want to share the information and tools I got from the book with you.........it has helped me so I figure I would share the wealth.

The name of the book is Magenta Pixie is "Masters of the Matrix: Becoming the Architect of Your Reality and Activating the Original Human Template" by Magenta Pixie.  Magenta Pixie is a channel for the higher dimensional, divine intelligence knowns as "The White Winged Collective Consciousness of Nine".  She has a youtube channel where she shares the information she receives through channeling.  

While reading the book, she shares information from the "Collective" about Emotional Integration.

Emotional Integration is a process in which you actively and consciously allow yourself to feel, observe and work with your emotions to help you get a better understand of how they play one of the most major roles in your perspective, actions, interactions, reactions and relationships you have with others, yourself and your life.  Emotional Integration is also a powerful tool that can help to empower you towards enlightenment and healing.

This is how emotional integration works……………and it is best to use this tool while you are experiencing the emotions……………..

Suppose you have been working on a project on your computer for some time and it is almost complete.  One day, as you are working on the project your computer suddenly shuts down.  No sweat right, you know your work is on auto save and backed-up.  You turn the computer back on and go to open up your project and you notice that it is no place to be found on your computer………you immediately go into the twilight zone….……..tunnel vision…….type of zone.  After searching through your entire computer………you realize that your project is GONE!!!!!

You are PISSED!!!!

Our normal reaction/response would be to act according to how we feel (reactions/response would be to cuss, fuss, through the mouse and probably want to bash the computer with the keyboard).

When you go through the process of emotional integration, instead of acting or reacting, you allow yourself the opportunity to get a better understanding of your emotions, feelings and yourself………which can lead to empowerment and healing. 

So, you feel “PISSED”, sit with it (without reacting) and go through the process of:

Acknowledgement

Analysis

Gratitude

Integration

“ACKNOWLEDGEMENT” is when you come to terms with the fact that you are pissed.  You can say to yourself, “I FEEL PISSED!”

If you work with archetypes, you can create an archetype for the emotion you are feeling.  You can also create a color, shape or thing that represents your emotion.  What ever comes to your mind that shows you what your emotion looks like, go with it.  

You can even give the presentation of your emotion a name or call it the name of the emotions “Pissed”.

 “ANALYSIS” is when you take steps to discover the reason you feel the emotion.  Meditation, contemplation, prayer, writing, are forms of analysis.  

During this step you may come to a realization that you do not know why you are feeling the emotion you feel.  In this case you may have to do more analysis because our emotion tell us if we are in or out of balance or alignment with our heart and there is always a reason that our emotions come to the surface.  So take a little more time and be creative with this step if nothing comes up the first time.  The more digging and analysis you do, the more clear you will be on why you feel the emotion.

You may start to feel other emotions.  If this happens, know that your emotions have layers and take the time to acknowledge and analysis each new emotions that come up.  It may take extra time and effort, but it will be worth the work you put in now to see and feel the benefits of this process later. 

You may come to a realization of why you are feeling the emotion and/or instantly know the resolution to the original emotion.  If this is the case, know that you are moving in a healthy direction towards integrating your emotion.  

Analysis may take you back to things you experience in the past so that you can bring those unhealed and unresolved thoughts and emotions to the surface to heal.

So, you come to the "analyzed" conclusion that you are "Pissed" because you worked so hard on this project and you feel lost, like you will not be able to start from scratch again and feel satisfied with your creation (project).  You remember a few years ago when you started on a similar project and you lost all of your work due to a glitch in your computer and you never completed that project because you felt lost and you just gave up.  You also never gave yourself another shot at the project, just accepting the fact that you failed because the computer broke.

“GRATITUDE” is when you recognize that the emotion is there to tell you something or to show you something.  During this step, you show gratitude for the emotion coming into your life, you thank the emotion for being a party of you and thank the emotion for being there to help you figure out the reason “Analysis” that you feel it.  

"Pissed" thank you for showing up and helping me to see that I did not fail, I now see that this is an opportunity for me to come to terms with the fact that I am not a failure just because the computer broke...........the broken computer may be an open door for me to redo my project better than the first time.  My failure is not determined by a broken computer, it is determined by if I follow through with my dreams and goals of completing this project and seeing it till the end.........no matter what! (Ok Fam.......it may take some time for all of us to get to this point of gratitude, but you get the picture!)

When you can come to an understanding of why you feel your emotions, then you are able to start the healing process and become empowered.

“INTEGRATION” is when you actively combined all parts to make or function as a whole.  We work through all of the steps we just spoke about (Acknowledgement, Analysis and Gratitude as we are feeling the emotion) which helps us to take responsibility for appropriately expressing our feelings in a way that will help us to feel whole.  Integration helps us figure out ways to not only express ourselves, but heal, nurture and empower ourselves, assisting in the process of understanding where our feelings are truly coming from (perceptions, perspectives, memories, beliefs, etc.) and enabling us to work towards identifying how to work with our feelings, get back into alignment with our life path and heart’s desires.

Ok, so, I felt pissed because my project was deleted by my computer when it shut down and this triggered emotions I felt from a past situation that was very similar.  The past situation had me feeling like I was a failure, so I decided to just give up and not complete the project.  I "perceive" that this is the same situation, because the feelings and circumstances are the same. The similarities makes me feel "Pissed".  Now that I sat with my feelings, acknowledged them, analyzed them, showed gratitude and made all of these connections, I have a better innerstanding of where all of this is coming from. I can now move forward with my healing because now I know that the computer issue does not mean I am a failure and I can think of a few solutions to my computer crashing again. The crashed computer is not going to stop me from completing my project and living my dream.  I am going to fix my computer or get another one, back up my project on a disk (solutions).  I now know that these feelings came back up so that I could heal (I am not a failure), grow (I innerstand where these feelings are coming from) and be able to use my emotions and past experiences to grow and be empowered (I know that I can resolve/solve what ever challenges I face).

Who wants to actually do this?  You do………because something brought you to this post to read!

You are worth this and so much more!!!!!

Confirmation.............

Bff, how are you doing today?

I am doing well......thank you for asking.  No chest pains today, which is always a blessing!

So, I am tired...............just so very tired.  I go to sleep tire, I wake up tire, I am just tired all of the time..............I have no energy to go to the gym, which I pay for every month.  I can't seem to stop eating.  I start to eat more healthy and then a fall back to by unhealthy habits.

Since I started to have chest and side pains, I decided to change my eating habits to work towards figuring out what foods may trigger my body pains.  I stopped eating fried, greasy, processed food, carbs, sugars, juice and soda.  It was going great, I lost a ton of weight (which I really did not want to do) but I was still experiencing the pains.  Slowly but surely, I broke the habit and started to eat sugar and carbs again.  I gained some weight (all of the weight) back and am still experiencing the pains.

At the beginning of this year, I decided to do a food cleanse.........no sugar, carbs, dairy, fried or processed food, just so I could give my body a break.  That did not last too long either, but I did figure out which foods contribute to my body aches and pains 😁.

Now, I want (wait, the beginning of the year? It is only February 1, what the hell am I talking about?lol) to be healthy, active, vibrant and whole!

So, as I am at work, minding my own business, just doing my work, my phone vibrates and guess who it is? Yup! You got it Bff, Will 😲.

A few days ago, I was reading about people who live off of air or water or just fruits.  It must be a sign for me to look into because Will text me a youtube clip of a man who lives off of air and another link to some information about "Inner Earth".....quite interesting........for me on many different levels.  Not only was I reading about "Breatharians" and such, I recently had a conversation with someone about "Inner Earth"................

I watched the short video and printed out the information on the link.  I also asked him if he wanted to take a trip with me to "Inner Earth" and told him I will do some research.

This is all confirmation for me that things are moving forward in ways I never imagined and that I just need to be more present and open to receive the guidance that my team is always giving me.

Time for me to do some work!

Friday, April 24, 2015 Why?

Hey Bff.  Are you wondering what the title of this post is all about?

Well, get comfy cause I am going to tell you:

During the course of 2015, Will and I were getting reacquainted with each other.  We would talk to each other, text, email, speak and see each other, on his terms of course.  We would talk about metaphysics, spirituality, our extraordinary experiences, Ascended Masters, our Spirit Guides; you get the point right? When we were fortunate enough to see each other, our talks would continue but we also did what felt like spiritual work on each other.  He would channel our spirit guides and I would ask them questions, he would do energy healing on me and I too would channel out guides and share insight and messages to him.  Bff, it was pure bliss.

However, I would sometimes get this underlying feeling of sadness, pain, guilt and confusion.  I later realized that these were his feelings I was feelings. 

Since we started to communicate, I have been experiencing so many interesting things...........so interesting that I am not able to share them with anyone but you Bff, because I know that you will be open to what I have to say. 

One of the most memorable occurrences dealt with visions that I had in my mine's eye of a work related physical fitness test he took.  He told me that he was taking this fitness test and what day he was taking it, but he did not tell me the time of the test or where the test would be.  In the morning, on the day of the test, I energetically wished him the best of luck and proceeded to get ready for work.  As I was washing up, I saw a park with trees, benches and a running/walking path.  On the right side of the path, there was a metal fence and water, like a river.  I also saw a big bridge. 

(Kind of like these two pictures, but there were more trees)

I did not think much of it, but as I continued my morning routine, I actually saw what it would look like to be running on that path in the park.................there were other people also running and some passed me (or whoever's eyes I was seeing from), while caught up to and passed other people running. 

This is not the first time I have had visions, so I did not think much of it, finished getting ready for work and went on with my day.

A few days later, I received a phone call from Will so I decided to ask him about his test.  I started off telling him the vision that I had the morning of his test and asked him if the park was similar to the park in my vision.  He was silent for a few seconds and then said, "Did I tell you what park I was running in?"  I said, "No".  He said, "Are you sure because that is exactly what the park looked like during my test!".  We were both quiet, lol, but that is when I know that our connections was growing stronger!

Days, weeks and months passed and the energy between us was undeniable..........I know he felt it too because I felt him pulling away from me and one day he called me to tell me that too.  During our conversation, I knew that he was going to apprehensively explain that he is a bit overwhelmed and needs to stop communicating with me to figure out what is going on with him.  Actually, what he said to me was shocking, it left me a bit speechless.

Will told me that he could not concentrate, he was having a hard time performing his daily tasks because his heart and soul longed to be with me.  He explained that he could no longer talk to me or see me because he wanted to get back on track so he could start to heal.

How many times to I have to experience this with him? How many different ways can I experience this with him? Why do I have to experience this with him, lol?

Bff, I knew he was going to tell me we had to stop communicating, but I did not know he was going to tell me that his heart and soul longed for me.  Shyttt...........take all of the time in the world.....I have been waiting for years for him to open up to me like that.........take as much time as you need, Daddy!

His words replaced my sadness with bliss and ecstasy! I thanked him for being so open and honest with me and asked him what I could do to make this process easier for him.  I suggested that I no longer send him energy and I will only communicate with him if he initiates the communication.  He reluctantly agreed and we ended our conversation saying, "I Love You."

I knew this would not last forever, I felt him, saw his experiences and heard his heart.

What I did not know is that he would actually do things that would have an affect on me!

On April 24, 2015, I got home from work and experienced a full body shock that blacked me out for 2 seconds and had me feeling a bit uneasy and scared.  What in the world was happening to me? My heart started racing, chest started hurting, I started to get really hot. 

Ok, Bff, I don't know what is going on with me, so I left the house and went right to the hospital. 

I started to feel like there was something trying to take my soul, the very essence of my being as I sat in the Emergency Room of the hospital.  What is going on with me?  Am I having a heart attack?

I stayed in the hospital for the weekend; I was having ever possible test run on me to see what was going on. 

The doctor's found nothing, absolutely nothing! 

How could this be? I feel like I am dying!

I remained out of work going back and forth to different doctors to try to find out what was happening to me.  Scared out of my mind, I started to defend myself spiritually.

On April 28, 2015, I received a call from Will, hmmmmmmmmmmm, now this is interesting.  No more than 2 weeks ago he told me that he could not communicate with me, now he is calling me. 

I did not hesitate to tell him what I was experiencing and I did not leave out any details. 

After I told him what I was experiencing, he told me that on Friday, April 24th, he went to see a lady and they did some chanting and other spiritual work so he could get back the piece of his soul that he gave me.  He went on to tell me that he also went to see another lady, who had him do some crystal and candle work, to trap a "very strong entity" that was around him, they put this "entity" in the crystal and broke the crystal, symbolizing the destruction of the entity.

(sidebar: That is not me in this pic, lol)

WHAT THE FUCK IS HE TRYING TO SAY AND DO? Is he saying that I am an "entity"?

Bff, at this point in the game, he does not acknowledge that we are TF's, but he does acknowledge that we share a strong connection.  However, apparently, he does not understand that our "strong connection" is so strong that the things he does, feels and experiences also has an affect on me. 

As he is telling me all of the "wonderful" things he is doing to grow and heal, I am sitting in my room in a fucking daze..........................and the voice in my head is saying, "You mean to tell me that he is doing some juju to heal himself, get back the part of his soul (which is actually OUR SOUL, we are 1), trap and destroy a demon not realizing that everything and anything he does (whether spiritual or not) I feel on a massive level?" This mother fucker here..............is fucking with my life and he does not even realize it.

Shaking my fucking head, I lovingly try to explain to him (again) that the connection we share is something that is very hard to explain for human understanding, it is a connection that defies all human comprehension all laws of space, time and life as we know it.  It is an energetic, soul essence connection, blessed, protected and created by the Divine.  I told him in these exact words, "The spiritual work that you do and did affected me on a physical, emotional and spiritual level.  I feel the physical pain of you trying to get back the piece of your soul because now I feel like there is something trying to take my soul essence from me.  I feel it in my heart, that is why I am having chest pains".  I wanted to make sure that he innerstood, on the deepest level possible, that our connection is more intense than he or anyone could ever imagine!

I apologized, telling me that he did not realize his actions would have such a profound affect on me and he said he will be more mindful of what he does and who he goes to.

I remained out of work, Doctor's orders, for 3 and a half months trying to figure out if what he did energetic and spiritually damaged me physically.  Till this day, I am still experiencing chest pains, left arm tingling and all different kinds of aches and pains.  I am experiencing chest pains as I type this blog........... I have a Cardiologist, Gastroenterologist, Urologist, Rheumatologist, Pain Specialist, Breast Specialist, Counselor/Therapist and Pain Therapist, still, every single doctor/specialist I have gone to (and continue to go to) tells me that all of my organs are perfect, my health is perfect, my tests come back negative for EVERYTHING, there is NOTHING WRONG WITH ME!

So, Bff, why is my freaking chest still hurting?

Maybe Will can tell me why~~~!!!

Decisions............Decisions

Bff, please forgive me for not communicating with you through this blog......It has been almost a year.

Although I have not used this medium for staying connected, I did create quite a few videos.........some of which give great details about what I have been going through............

As with all time lapses in our communication, so much has happened and I can't wait to share my experiences with you in hopes to get more clarity with regards to my life.............I am a work in progress and may times I cant decide on who I want to be...................................

Do I want to be naughty or do I want to be nice?  Can I find a happy medium between the two? Can I find balance in my two most dominant characteristics?  Will I ever harmonize my yin and yang?

That last question is something that many people are silently asking themselves..............some people don't even know that they are asking the question at all.  They are just going through great shifts and changes, some are oblivious or just don't want to pay attention.

I can't help but pay attention, feel, think and experience this...........this thing that I am going through........

What am I going through, you may be asking, lol.  Well Bff, I no longer talk to any of the people in my past.  Higgins tries to communicate with me and even see me, but he left a bad taste in my mouth and I do not want to ever let him think that we are friends...............I burned that chapter when I burned the things he gave me.  Big Daddy is a complete turn off...........we lost touch with each other and he started texting me last year.  I decided, after he continued to beg me, to go and see him one day after work.  He was not what he used to be, perhaps because he got bigger his dick got smaller, I don't know, I really don't care.  After that one horrible experience with him and his now smaller dick, I decided I am not going to waste my time with him either.  I guess he felt my energy and started to text me, telling me that it is weird that we don't communicate and shit like that.  I don't have time for this bull shit so I just laughed, said my piece and kept it moving, while putting him on "block".  

As you know, I allowed Will to come back into my life but from the beginning, I have been torn.  Being that he is married, we don't communicate the way I would like to but we asked each other if we could be friends, smfh (really, what the fuck does that mean?)  I don't call him, but I do text him.  He calls me every now and then but to be brutal, it does not feel like we are friends.  I feels more like he keeps me around because he knows I love him more than life and will take him to the ends of the universe when ever he give me the change, which seems to be when every he is feeling freaky.  Don't get me wrong, I play the game, but I also suffer the most...................suffer because I get a piece of the pie as it is going bad, while he had the pie fresh out of the bakery.  Yes, I know I have a choice, I can say no and not see him when he calls, but who am I fooling?  This story with Will is never ending, eternal, Divinely planned.  I don't expect you to understand my reasons for dealing with Will, Bff........this thing he and I share goes far beyond human comprehension.  All I ask is that you be open to listen to what I have to share about what has happened and what is happening between he and I.  So far it has been so much, I will have to really take some time out to fill you in...........but just to give you a hint................We have gone from seeing each other and experiencing spiritual phenomena and physical, emotional and spiritual bliss, euphoria and ecstasy to me feeling like I am being followed by a dark entity that is trying to take my life, having chest pains for over 2 years (yes, I still have chest pains) thinking that I am experiencing these things because he did candle and crystal work to try to get the piece of his soul back that he gave me (damn that was a lot, lol)!  Now, today, I have to decide if I want to see him on February 8th.............right now I am feeling like I just want to stay away from him so he can continue to live his fantasy............the life he choose to live without me!!!

So, I met up with one of my elementary school mates.............he had a horrible crush on me, so bad that he used to be mean to me when we were younger.  Now that we are older, he is so in love with me, it is so sweet............................so sweet that my teeth are chipping....Yes, Bff, no lie, my front tooth is chipped!  Let's call him C's.  C's live a few blocks away from me which is very convenient.  C's is dark chocolate and has smooth creamy skin.  He is a big guy, just like I like........we have so much fun together......I mean a lot of fun, like homies fun, if you know what I mean.  He is head over heels in love with me but I do not feel the same way and I don't want him to get it twisted.  We have been "hanging out" for almost 3 years..............and almost every weekend of that time, I have been disappointed and felt used..........no not because of sex, but because I feel like he always wants me around and does not consider my feelings or what I want to do.  Now, in his defense, he would make a good mate, but not a good mate for me!  I finally came to terms with the fact that although I find a lot of comfort in his company, the familiar cozy feeling is a death trap.........which makes me stay still, warm and comfy...........but when I leave, I realized that I was in a dream..........the never ending Pisces dream (he is also a Pisces, just my luck!).  I don't bit my tongue, so I can tell you that I would probably be in love with him (Ohh....yes, I love him and care for him dearly!) if the sex game was off the hook, but I feel like when we have sex (the very few times that has happened) he is crying because he loves me so much. 😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒  Don't get me wrong, Bff, that is really sweet, but I feel really awkward having sex with him when I feel like he is crying, lol.....no, this is not funny......this is how I feel (LOLOL).  Anyway, we keep going through cycles of him pissing me off by putting me in situations he knows I don't like (he knows because I tell him I don't like them, lol), me getting upset and telling him why I am upset, him telling me he is in love with me and he is trying, us going back to hanging out like everything is ok (minus the sex, like I said, I don't want him to get it twisted nor do I want to have sex with any man and I feel like he is crying, that is such a turn off!), back to him pissing me off..................................and the cycle continues............it continued, like I said, for almost 3 years................I am tired and this is going to stop.  He is not happy about it, but I can't be that nice girl this time...........well, actually I can be the nice girl to me! He will be ok.........

Now, believe it or not BFF, but Sam and I are hanging out again.  I never thought that Sam would have forgiven me for hurting him (remember, the situation with YumYum that hurt Sam so much he cussed me and was not speaking to me?).  Well, Sam expressed how my actions hurt him and also caused him to lose certain business connections.  He told me that the time he did not speak to me, while I was dealing with YumYum, he was trying to get his life together and the reason he called me  (that day he cussed me out) was to tell me that he made some major changes in his life; went back to school, got a new job and a house (but denied being married) so that I could see that he was stepping up his game and being a man.  Basically, he did all of that stuff to make me proud (hmmm).  As he expressed and stressed how he felt by my betrayal, I innerstand, however, I stand my ground regarding my perspective...............We were able to get to a point where we started to hang out with each other........but check this out......Bff, Sam got married for monetary reasons (he initially told me that he was not married, but I am not calculating all of the lies that he told me, or am I?).  Cum'on!!!! Really Sam?  Till this day, Sam is still married but he has told me quite a few times that he does not live as husband and wife..........However, other very credible sources have been invited to his house for parties that they (he and his wife) had and have seen them interact with each other.........as husband and wife.  Fuck out of here, who does Sam think he is fooling?  Anyway, somehow, someway, we got to the point were we see each other every now and then......................boy oh boy has he changed.....OMG...........Sam puts it down!  The first time we hung out, after all that stuff was resolved, he made me squirt so much, I could not look at him.  Since then, every time we see each other it just get better and better.  Damn he has grown in so many different ways.............Bff, don't worry, I will definitely tell you all about it in another blog.........I know you are not going to want to miss that blog, lolol. 

I really don't communicate with Keys, and I definitely don't communicate with D.  I found out that she was talking badly of me at work when I was out on leave, trying to figure out why Will was energetically trying to kill me, lol.  I was really hurt when I found out what she was saying about me, but in all reality, I should have known.  When we hung out I always wondered why her other girlfriends would come and gooooooooooooooooo, go for a long time.  I used to think that it was them, but now I see that they left because of her.  I am better for it, I would never want a friend like...........I rather spend time with myself (but it still hurts!)

So today, here I am...................again!!!! I really have to make a decision...................Do I want to be nice or naughty.............True of Fake?    We will see.......................LOL